Before You Can step Into A New Life Chapter … You have To Grief the Old Life.
If you don’t express the grief in any way or form you want. 
It will torture your memory not in a scary way, but in a way that you keep having flash backs on things that are gone, and not necessary.
Close the chapter.
Is hard to start over, but sometimes is needed so you can focus and be cautious. ( But not too cautious that you irritate people around you).
Ask God to guide you next time.
Walk with him, and believe in yourself.
You might not be great now, but One day with faith it will all make sense.
Allow your Creature to lead the way.
Ask yourself… what is more important in my life..in this life or in our life.
If you have a lot in your head try this. off your radio, phone while driving or eating for few minute and soak in the peace and Silence.
PRAY…BREATHE…. RELAX .
IT WILL BE FINE
Have a blessed Weekend.